Sacrifices

There are many sacrifices we make as theatre technicians: we do not have a normal weekend, our beds hardly know who we are, etc. Most of these things I am happy to forego if it means I can practice the craft I love. There is only one thing that I hate sacrificing as a young professional.

Family

Recently I had to make a very difficult choice. I had to choose between being employed for a 5 month gig OR attending my cousin's wedding. If I signed my contract I would not be given the one day off to attend his wedding. For many people this would be a no brainer; attend the wedding. For me it was different.

Being newly out of college I find it hard to find jobs. The listings are there, but not many will give interviews. They are looking for more experience. I had to decide on giving up a position that I knew would give me the experience needed for future employment, and also money to fund my constant moving, OR give up a day with my family (which is hard to come by as well). 

I discussed the issue with my family as a whole, but ultimately the decision was mine to make. I chose to take the job. 

This is one of the toughest drawbacks I have found in our line of work. 
Although you make a family with your cast and crew, they will never replace your flesh and blood. 

Question of the Post

What has been the toughest thing you've had to give up in your line of work?